Class

Class is not based on money, nor is it based on social standing. It is based on how one human interacts with others. There is a certain level of obedience to culture and civil rules, but it all stems from respect. Personally, I am not a fan of organized religion. I will, however, always genuflect before sitting in a pew at a wedding. As far as I see it, I am in Christians' house, by invite, I will abide by their customs. Similarly, using the right fork at the dinner table is not a matter of cow-towing to dandies' rules. It serves a utilitarian purpose for the dish in front of you. Also, across the room, it provides for the clean appearance of not having to constantly replace flatware or mix food on the same utensil. If you feel rules of etiquette are tedious, think of it like this. Your mother throws a large party for your father's 50th birthday. What type of guest would cause her less stress and allow her to enjoy the day more, the man who is under dressed, shovels in the food, and downs the drinks, or the man who comes dress for the occasion, eats in a civilized manner, while politely conversing, and enjoys a good tote of scotch. Etiquette is about the other people in the room, not you. There will be many rules, but these are paramount. Always hold the door for a lady, and if there is an elderly person or pregnant woman, always give up your seat.